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Monday, January 25, 2016

How arguing kills relationships

There was this couple that always had one reason or the other to always fight,  Infact a day didn't go by where this couple didn't have a quarrel or something that caused disagreement between them,  it would either be that the wife would have a pan in her hand and she's hitting the man with it or  one could find the man delivering all sorts of punches on the woman, but amazingly this couple never got tired of hitting each other,  so one day as usual they had started their normal boxing routine and had woken up the whole neighborhood with their noise .
That action and noise for that day was so annoying that the neighbors decided to allow them kill each other, but the banging sounds kept going on for about 30mins when one of their neighbors got angry and went to call the police. Minutes later an aged inspector and two of his colleagues arrived  the scene, from the sound the man and his boys walked up to the building containing the two roaring tigers, he just walked into the house,  looked around a bit,  and walked towards the dinning area and sat down. The puzzled couple on seeing the police man immediately recovered their senses and tried to organize their act, he then smiled and asked both of them to sit with him at the dinning, here was the conversation that transpired between them :
Police man: Now I see that both of you have turned this neighborhood into a wrestling zone where you display whenever you feel like,  well I was invited by your neighbors to arrest you for public nuisance,  but sincerely I'm not in the mood to make any arrests this morning so I'm willing to give you a second chance, because I've been in your shoes once. Now, I'm going to ask each of you 2 questions and then I'll make a suggestion, but its either you take it or leave it,  the couple then nodded in agreement.
Question:
Why are both of you so mad at each other   and
• What would you do,  if you were asked to divorce your partner
(the couples then replied )saying:
Husband: Sir,  this woman is the wildest of all women, she is wicked arrogant, impatient and too bossy, I'm tired of her and can't leave with her anymore,  she used to be a very sexy and loving girl before I  married her, but after a year with her I'm really tired of her and i can barely survive in the same house with this woman and to answer your second question,  I'll gladly divorce her any day and anytime.
Wife:  I also adored this man once,  he was the most handsome chap in school as at then and he was so romantic,  he usually got me everything I needed, we went on different tours and moments we spent together were just unforgettable,  but never did I know that we will end up living on my monthly salary,  officer to be sincere ever since he lost his job,  he has become more annoying, it pains me when he does nothing but sit home and enjoy my hard earned money and sincerely speaking, if this man could just change for the good, I might just forget all that we've been through and just move on instead of a divorce (the man interrupted saying, its a lie ooo we must file for divorce ).
After the conversation the police man then spoke on some possible solutions to their problems and tried to explain the essence of marriage itself and also suggested that  the man could either move out of the house  for some time or the woman could do the same just for the sake of peace  .After several minutes of silence in the room, the police man stood up and left the house with his boys . Leaving the two couples to their thoughts .
That night the whole house was awkwardly silent, peace was upon the troublesome couple, but even with the silence, the wife found it very hard to sleep, her thoughts were beginning to haunt her, she started feeling guilty of all the things she had been doing to her husband, happy memories she shared with him  started kicking in, she even started wondering how she had become so violent and disrespectful, she was so disturbed that she started moping, she felt like a big disgrace, she never wanted things to go that way,  so she decided to make things right the next morning, she structured a whole plan to make things up with her dear husband the next morning .................
It was about 6:35am the next day,  when she woke up and started cleaning the house and preparing breakfast for her husband .she cleaned until it was about  8:02 am when she decided to take the breakfast to her dear husband, so she climbed the stairs to his room and knocked on the door, but there was no reply, she kept on knocking but things remained the same, she thought he was still angry over the previous day,  so she sat leaning on the door and started apologizing for things she had done and how she would love them to make things right, but still the door knob remained as stiff and untouched as it was, at this moment she was beginning to have a feeling that the man was probably doing something that he didn't want her to know about so she got to her feet, moved back a little bit and  then pushed hard against the door.
Minutes later she had forcefully gained access to the room, only to find her husband laying on the floor, she moved towards him and tried to feel his pulse, but his body was just as cold and lifeless as a sack of beans, she could hardly believe the whole scene so she immediately rushed out  to call her neighbor, the neighbor eventually got the news and rushed with his two sons to take the man to the hospital after several hours of waiting at the hospital,  the doctor finally came out and broke the sad news pronouncing the man dead as a result of a heart attack he had suffered recently, at that instant the wife fell to her knees and started crying,  the doctor then directed them to the room where her husband's body was kept, on seeing her husband lay lifeless on that bed she had nothing but regrets going through her mind, regrets of how she had spent her entire marriage tenure making nothing but trouble and irrelevant statements and actions that as far as she was concerned could have been the real cause of  her husband's death,  but no matter how much tears and how much regret she let out,  nothing could be done. Her husband was gone for good.
She went home only to start hearing rumours that she had killed her husband, she couldn't help but cry anytime she saw her neighbors trying to avoid her, because they taught she was a witch and she had simply  killed her husband because he wanted to leave her.
This woman had learnt a big lesson but that lesson was learnt at the wrong time, so she had to keep up with the hate, regret and dismay she had all around her until she eventually gave up the ghost 3years after her husband's death

Lesson:
He who is attracted to you because
you showed perhaps your legs or your shape
- those legs are not going to look
like that for the rest of your life, nor
will you be able to maintain that shape
forever. So therefore it is better for
you to realise that he who is attracted to your heart, your goodness and your character is the one to whom no matter what you look like, he will love you and adore you and 60 years down the road would still tell you that
you’re ‘the "ONE"

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