An American woman, business entrepreneur, Deborah Hendrickson is crying
out after her Nigerian husband, Tony Ettah, according to her, 'scammed
her, used her to get to the US and then dumped her after he got his
Greencard. Read her story below...
"I don't know where to start . . . I guess I'll start with meeting
Inyang Obaten Ettah, AKA Tony Ettah back in June 2010, we met through a
friend of mine named, Charles. I've been visiting Nigeria since 2008,
had an NGO there (Open Arms International) that never really got
started, I know lots of people in Nigeria, Rich & Poor.
I thought I was savvy when it came to the Romance
Scammers, the 419ers, but, I was not prepared for how Inyang Obaten
Ettah PLAYED ME, yes, I did inquire about Inyang via Charles, Charles
vouched for Inyang's authenticity (so HE THOUGHT) because Charles knew
Inyang for 10 years (at that time - June 2010), there is where it began.
Once Inyang contacted me, we talked, when Inyang told me his age (36 at
that time) I was 51, immediately, I hung up on him, he called back
thinking we got disconnected, I explained to Inyang that he was way out
of my age range and I KNOW the culture in Nigeria of Older, especially
AMERICAN WOMEN and younger Nigerian Men, for weeks I ignored his calls,
till finally he begged me to just "talk to him," which I did - WRONG FOR
ME, but, too late. Inyang talked that sweet talk (I can say that now),
he saw I was a Christian and began to use that to his Advantage, I
asked Inyang "why won't he leave me alone?" Finally he said "Because GOD
SAID YOU ARE MY WIFE so I am pursuing you." Those words took me off
guard because NEVER had a man say that to me, and never would I have
thought One - Inyang would LIE ON GOD! From there, he got my attention,
by that time 2 months had passed (August 2010).
As Inyang and I began conversing, we discussed the difference in Age
and the fact that I could not have any children, Inyang response was "it
doesn't matter because God said you are my Wife and I had made up in my
mind that however God sent my wife, that is how I would ACCEPT her."
He shared with me how many women in his church (Faith Tabernacle AKA
Winners, David Oyedepo is Pastor) cannot have children, and some are
even older than their husbands, but, they still married and are still
married today (was referring up to that moment he made that statement).
He even shared how his Auntie is in the exact situation (no Child(ren),
yet she and her husband are STILL TOGETHER (at that time August 2010).
Time went on, Inyang then asked that I come to Nigeria to visit him, by
that time he had CONVINCED me that he was AUTHENTIC and SINCERE - HE
WASN'T. Anyway, I visited Inyang December 2010 (6 months after
officially meeting). I was in Nigeria for 21 days, the entire time
Inyang was the Perfect Host, he took me everywhere, introduced me to
EVERYONE, family, friends, enemies, church associates, he even took me
to church at Winners' Chapel, Canaan Land, Ota Nigeria; Inyang was so
active at Winners, he volunteered as Security (Bus & Church), he
pretty much, so I THOUGHT lived in church, always talking about God (to
me), he told me how he attended Pre-Marital classes at Winners because
he wanted to Prepare to be an EXCELLENT HUSBAND to ME, he had me FOOLED,
he was the World's Greatest Pretender.
While in Nigeria Inyang proposed to me (December 21, 2010) during my
Launch Party of Royal Entertainment Nigeria, I accepted his Proposal
because I was convinced he was AUTHENTIC! He did not perform in the
typical way that of a Romance Scammer or Yahoo Boi, as stated, he
introduced me to EVERYONE, took me EVERYWHERE, etc. After the proposal,
eight months later I returned to Nigeria and we were married
8 months later (August 12, 2011). What I thought that was going to be a Marriage, turned out to be MARRIAGE FRAUD!
I submitted Inyang's Immigration paperwork to USCIS December 12, 2011,
the first process was was Approved May 2012, his Interview in Lagos was
October 30, 2012 and his Visa was issued, the entire process from
submission to Approval was 10 months, Inyang even used that quick
process to say "the Lord Caused it to happen because it is HIS WILL
because I'm his Wife." LIAR!
Inyang arrived in the U.S. November 21, 2012 and that's when HE CHANGED -
IMMEDIATELY! He was no longer the loving speaking, affectionate man I
visited December 2012, his excuse was "he's in a new place, give him
time to adjust." In the meanwhile I did my part as his wife. I later
learned that Inyang never attended school in Nigeria when I took him to
our local college (Danville Community College) to enroll, I was upset
because Inyang TOLD ME he was college educated (in Nigeria), Education
means a lot to me and I only aligned myself with college educated men,
so, he could not enroll. he was advised to enroll in the Adult Education
program, which he did, but was unable to do the work so he stopped
attending. He applied for a job at a Company name EBI in Danville, VA
(June 6, 2013) and was terminated (July 4, 2013) due to violation of
company code by using profane language and misconduct, thereafter Inyang
obtained a job at Ebay through Adecco a Temporary Employment Agency, he
didn't keep that job and was released approximately 4 weeks later (those dates elude me). Thereafter Inyang could not find employment in Danville, VA, it was a strain on the marriage.
By April 2014 a friend of mine, Amos Ajo conference with Inyang and I to
discuss Inyang moving to Atlanta, Georgia to work for him, the plan was
for Inyang to move, get established, and I to follow no less than
6 months later
- that NEVER HAPPENED! Inyang officially moved to Atlanta April 14,
2014, and Mr. Ajo did as promised, gave Inyang a job, Inyang and I
talked everyday, he visited me periodically in Danville, VA; when I
visited Inyang in Atlanta, he was always too busy to be with me, always
said "he was working," causing my trip to be wasted. As time went on I
noticed I was not hearing from Inyang, his excuse was always "he's
working," yet he NEVER SENT ANY MONEY TO ME FOR the HOUSEHOLD in
Danville, his excuse was "he had to pay for expenses where he was
staying," Mr. Ajo arranged temporary lodging for Inyang at 3502 Adkins
Road, Atlanta, GA 30331 where he shared space with Mr. Gabriel Owolabi,
a friend of Mr. Ajo.
I didn't notice until AFTERWARDS that Inyang played Me, what I mean by
that is, from April 14, 2014 to July 2014 I barely heard from Inyang. By
August 2014 he began calling regularly, his excuse was, he got a new
Job working at a company named United Distributors Inc., 5500 United Dr.
SE, Smyrna, GA 30082,
678.305.2000 and
was flexible and could now talk when at work. By September 2014 Inyang
did a surprise visited, I realized AFTERWARD that it was because the
I-751-Petition to Remove Conditions on Residence Arrived, Inyang
gathered all documents, and the form was Signed by me. I remained
consumed with the preparation of opening my Christian Venue, Debs Gospel
Cafe in Danville, VA, which opened November 2014. Inyang did another
surprised visit for Thanksgiving 2014.
Thereafter it went back to him not calling. I visited Inyang in
Atlanta, GA March 14, 2015 after the last seeing him since November
2014, that visit did not turn out to be good, Inyang complained that I
could not stay with him at 3502 Adkins Road, Atlanta, GA 30331 because
there "was no place for me to sleep," so, I rented a Motel at the Super 8
in Stockbridge, GA, Inyang spent 1 night with me then left me at the
hotel, not hearing from him again, he said he had to "go home to wash
clothes." I left Georgia devastated!
My daughter married March 24, 2015, to appease me from his doing me
wrong a week later he attended her wedding, he was very cold, everyone
around noticed his negative attitude towards me and quickly voices their
opinion. March 26, 2015 was the LAST TIME I SAW INYANG. Inyang kept
in touch, each time asking me "did his Permanent Green Card arrive," he
said he needed it because his job was in jeapordy and now that his
finances was getting better better, he needed to keep his job at United
Distributors, Inc. so he can begin sending me money - EVENTUALLY, HE
NEVER SENT A DIME! Finally, May 1, 2015 his Permanent Resident Card
arrived, I mailed it to him because he expressed the urgency of it to
show his Employer.
Once Inyang received his Permanent Resident card, he BLOCKED ME from ALL
Social Network, MOVED to 1121 Ridgebrook Trail, Duluth, GA 30096, and
changed his Job (unknown to me now). Because Inyang refused to give me
the necessary job information (while at United Distributors, Inc.) I was
unable to apply and received Healthcare, Inyang filed his 2014 Income
Tax but I have no clue under what Status, he did tell me that he filed
SINGLE for 2015, and we were still married. Inyang changed his Driver's
License from Virgina #T60274200 to Georgia Driver's License 059553398,
he then moved his phone
434.203.5226 from my AT&T Family Plan to his own.
Inyang has severed ALL TIES WITH ME, as soon as he RECEIVED HIS
PERMANENT RESIDENT CARD, to me, showing MARRIAGE FRAUD, IF he was
serious about our Marriage, we would still be together.
Inyang has told many lies on me, saying, I threw water in his face, hit
him, etc., I KNOW his Nigerian friends put him up to saying that,
because IF I'd done those things, that's considered ABUSE and he could
have called Danville Local Police and file charges against me, but, IT
NEVER HAPPENED. He must make me look like the bad guy when all I ever
did was love him.
His plan was for us to REMAIN married so he can file for Citizenship in 5 years,
because by now I figured out he USED ME for MARRIAGE FRAUD, he knew I
would not submit the necessary paperwork for citizenship, he told me he
could still do it in 5 years
and that I could not STOP HIM FROM BECOMING A CITIZEN. Though it's MY
WORD AGAINST HIS, all I have is HIS ACTIONS, He ADMITTED TO ME THAT he
USED ME, and that I CAUSED IT BECAUSE I KEPT TELLING HIM THAT I SENSE
HE WAS USING ME AND MY "WORDS" CAUSED IT TO HAPPEN (Him using me). When
Inyang made that statement I immediately filed (online) a Fraud Case.
I divorced Inyang August 2016, he gladly signed the Papers because he
has a Fiancee, who he's probably married to by now, offering him the
opportunity to now file for citizenship.
I have been told that USCIS WILL DO NOTHING, because Inyang has not
committed a Crime, YES HE HAS, He COMMITTED MARRIAGE FRAUD! That's a
Federal Crime. I've since learned (by people who know him) that he has a
Shipping Company, he ships cars to Nigeria, and he has a Clothing Line
Winners Clothes, he makes his money and sends it back to Nigeria, Inyang
once told me that America is the Land of Opportunity and how he WILL
RAPE this Country of their dollars and take advantage of All
Opportunities, and he's doing it.
I am a FIGHTER, I know of 15 Women who has Married Nigerian men and the
men used them for Green Card Purposes and they "think" nothing can be
done, I want to show them that, YES, SOMETHING CAN BE DONE! YES! they
can be DEPORTED for Immigration Marriage Fraud.
I will sound the Alarm, Once Trump is in Office I will contact him and
tell him my Story, I'm almost sure I will get RESULTS! Inyang should
not have played with my life, I am a Good, Christian Woman Who Believes
in Doing Right - all The Time. I trust that the Lord WILL GIVE ME
JUSTICE by the Fraud Division recognizing that Inyang Obaten Ettah
MARRIED ME FOR IMMIGRATION MARRIAGE FRAUD
The Federal government yesterday launched its information App at the
Ladi Kwali Hall, Sheraton Hotels Abuja. According to the Minister of
Information and Culture, Lai Mohammed, the app named the Federal Govt.of
Nig. Information APP (FGNI APP), is to serve as the information hub of
all the developmental activities being carried out by the Buhari-led
administration. See more pics after the cut
The officers and men of the Federal Operations Unit Zone ‘C’ Owerri has
continued to record success in its anti-smuggling drive in the zone with
seizures of items worth millions in duty paid value. A 1X40 FT
container with marks numbers MRKU 254564 loaded with 1,017 sacks of 50
kg cannabis (Indian hemp) estimated at over was intercepted at
Benin-Shagamu road.
Popular Warri pidgin English Lyricist and entertainer, Erigga has just
inked a new record deal with Emirate Empire run by Anonymous man and
associate and the deal is said to be worth several millions of Naira.
